To be successful with women, you should have your mind in a learning mode.
Even if you totally bomb out with a particular woman, it is not a failure. Rather, it was a grand experiment that didn’t end the way you wanted it to. But it is still a LEARNING EXPERIENCE. Take what you learned about the experience and use it to YOUR advantage for next time. No harm, no foul- a big experiment, that’s all.
You have to be OPEN to feedback from your experiments. Both the successes and “failures” — and there are no failures– will teach you what works and what doesn’t work.
There is an old saying, “NOTHING CHANGES IF NOTHING CHANGES.”
I have a buddy who used to have mojo and chicks falling all over him. Well, the years passed on, he lost the mojo, and life left him behind. His great retirement plan now is to… win the lottery!
Yup, it IS as absurd as it sounds… but put your opinions of mastering the art of scoring the hot chick under that same template. Will YOU live life WAITING for some miracle to happen?
Or will you CHASE that dream up and down until it HAPPENS for you?
MOST guys are going to sit around and wait for the “mojo fairy” to knock on their door and anoint them with some funky chick-magnet Austin Powers powers.
You, though, are NOT most guys… you have tools and techniques that when practiced with dedication and an experimental playfulness, WILL get you the honey next door and the playmate in your playground.
I have another friend who wants to race dirt bikes. For the last six years, he’s been telling me he will race when he feels he’s good enough to race- in spite of the fact that he practices with a top five racer.
What in the hell is he waiting for… an invitation?!!! But my friend is not alone- there are thousands of people who WANT good things, PRETTY things in their lives, want things for themselves, and yet make no forward moves to MAKE IT HAPPEN.
Wanting to become a racer won’t make you a racer, RACING will. NO ONE wins their first race out… but WINNERS all have to start somewhere.